1. He'll change his
plans to be with you
He will drop his plans
or whatever he’s doing to help you, or be with you. This signals that you are a
priority and his care and concern centers around you.
2. He makes it known
you're important to him
He makes it known to
you that you are important to him. This can be in a variety of ways: he could
say it, but he could also show it by appreciating you, appreciating the things
he knows are important to you, responding to calls, texts and emails quickly
and lovingly, and integrating you into his daily life.
3. He includes you in
his social life
He introduces you to
his family, and circle of friends. He is affectionate with you in front of them
and uses “we” a lot. It’s a big deal to integrate a new partner into your life,
your close circle and your loved one, so if he’s gone beyond the initial
introduction and including you in his social life with people who are
meaningful, then it’s very likely love, or on its way to love.
4. He talks about his
hopes and dreams for the future with you
He discusses future
plans together. Not just about your relationship, but shares his dreams for the
future. If he considers you part of his future, then you can tell it’s serious.
But you can also tell if his feelings are deepening if he talks about his hopes
and dreams for the future generally, and wants to share them with you. He wants
you to know him and that increases intimacy and love.
5. He values your
opinion
He seeks your opinion
on matters that are personal and values the opinion you share. In a true
partnership, both partners will value one another perspectives, wisdom and
opinions. If he is doing this, then you’re in his heart and mind.
6. He does things he
may not enjoy, simply because it makes you happy
He does things he make
not like very much, but knows you like, and that’s important enough for him.
Love is often a choice, to extend you for and towards another person. If your
man does things for you that you know he’d never choose himself, whether it’s a
big or a little thing, it’s probably love.
7. He listens to you
He doesn’t just lust
you but also listens to you. You can tell love is happening when he’s just as happy
or almost talking with you and building your connection outside the bedroom as
spending every minute together taking one another clothes off.
8. He's by your side
looking after you when you're sick
He takes care of you if
you’re sick. Men aren’t always known for being the best nurses, but if his
nurturing and caring instincts kick in when you’re sick and he asks what you
need, and genuinely wants to do what he can for you, then you know he thinks
you’re pretty special.
9. He's interested in
knowing everything about you
He wants to know
everything about you, wants to meet your family, get to know your friends, and
is deeply interested in your life, thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams. If
he’s really falling in love with you, he will be intensely interested in
everything about you and your world.
10. He makes an effort
He’s romantic with you-
which don’t necessarily mean chocolates, cuddles and flowers, but rather means
he makes the effort and time to find out what’s meaningful to you as a woman to
be desired and adored, and then does that with his own thought and flair. And
to top it all off, he tells you he loves you.
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