The consideration is how
long has it been since the breakup. If it's been only a few days, you
are not on the right path to ever getting your ex to text you back nor
getting your ex back as well. In fact, what you're doing is pushing them
further away.
You cannot convince someone to talk to you who
doesn't want to. They have to decide this on their own, and constantly
texting them when they don't want you to is called harassment. If you're
doing this you need to chill out.
Seriously, before you learn how
to get your ex to text you back, you need to stop pissing them off.
Chances are they don't want to talk to you that soon after a breakup,
and nothing you can do will make them want to talk to you.
Just
back off for a bit and give your ex space. Let them cool off and let
them have the gift of missing you. This is what is known as the no
contact rule, and yes it's the literal meaning of its name. No contact
means no contact.
You'll need to learn more about the rules of no
contact in order to use it correctly. Make no mistake that it's
important to know why and how the no contact rule works. This stage is
important to carry out before you try to re-establish contact with your
ex. Do not use no contact if you have kids with your ex, however.
